Designing True North

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ In the far back of my closet lives a shelf lined with many pairs of gorgeous shoes that I haven’t worn in over 10 years. 👠 Cherry-red patent stilettos 👠 Black lace-covered peep toes 👠 To-die-for strappy sandals with 4-inch heels. They’re...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ Last summer, a new med gave me a 4-month long respite from migraines – I was able to drink booze for the first time in 11 years. YUP Reader: 11 years. I hadn’t had more than sips of wine since I owned my cheese & wine bar. (And I obv love...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ April 1st. 7:12 am: It’s been an hour. Neither grandparent has noticed the googly eyes. My kid and I keep giggling. 7:35 am: We were too obviously making eye contact and grinning. Gigi noticed something was up and spotted her water bottle! 👀...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ 2/5/25 I was going to skip this email. I didn’t know how to start writing it. Or to finish it. Or to write the middle. Soooooo the whole thing basically. When your world feels like a shaken-up snow globe, it's hard to figure out the rules...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ 👉 Don't forget! In January, my email will come from [email protected]! With 🛶 in the subject. So if you don't see an email from me on 1/16, check your spam folder. Let’s start with the obvious. AI isn’t going anywhere… it’s going everywhere....

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ Tl;DR: Want to skip right to the free gift? That's cool, though you'll miss the big changes happening 'round here.... The first thing you need to know is that I’m horrible with money. I don’t want to think about it at all. 💸 It comes in, it...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ When you're overwhelmed, can't sleep, or doubting everything you believe, what do you do? There are two things that <sometimes> help me: Escaping into a good story Connecting with my people And lordy I've been struggling, Reader. ...Maybe...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ Here’s what I’d rather do: 🙅🏻♀️ Bury back under the covers. 🙅🏻♀️ Plan a move to another country. 🙅🏻♀️ Binge-watch Great British Bake Show. 🙅🏻♀️ Ram as hard as I can into that Tesla truck at the stoplight. I definitely don’t want to post on...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ Remember that wedding I told you about last time? Someone else wore the same dress – the dress I thought about constantly for a year. We took a pic together, we're obv soulmates. She’s a comedian so I’m holding my breath, hoping I don’t...

͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ ͏ ­ For the last month, I’ve ghosted y’all – plus Threads, my blog, and Google Business. 🫣 You don't care why. It doesn't matter. (Except to say that in that month, my husband and I left the kids for the first time in over 5 years (!!!) for my...